Monday, February 18, 2008

What is wrong with girls?

Seriously? Anyone? Someone has to have an opinion, and opinion that may become an answer to this question.

Now I ask this, not because of what is wrong with me, that is a whole nother story, maybe I will tie it in here.

But no. I ask what is wrong with girls in general. Why are they so callous, bitchy, unloving? Why must they take genuine good guys and fuck them over? And why must they chose my guys to do this to?

I guess I can ask a better question. What is wrong with people in general? Is it just me or does it seem like people don't care anymore. No longer are people afraid of hurting someone, sometimes it seems as if they actually find some pleasure in doing so.

You'd think that in this day and age we'd have more compassion, more of a desire to not inflict pain. But that doesn't seem to be the case. Instead I see people, all over the place, hurting those that love them. Hurting friends, family, and lovers. Because why?

What has happened to this generation that we no longer care about the ramifications of our actions or inactions? Is life really that terrible that we don't have time to be nice? Is there joy found somewhere in ripping somone's heart out?

I have my own issues, I will be the first to admit that. But the one thing that I don't do is set out to hurt people. I will avoid that at all costs, even if it means I might hurt myself a little. Because while I can be a nasty bitch, I am also a very loving person. I don't want to see someone in pain because of my doing. That will break my heart.

And I understand that sometimes it is unavoidable. We can't be fully responsible for other peoples actions or reactions. We only can do what we can and be honest about it. Have I hurt people? Sure. I have. It happens, because that is life. But I take every step possible to shield the hurt, to make it managable, to not come off as callous.

But I don't see that often enough. I do see if with my friends, that is why I love them. So it angers me, to no end, to see other people lack this regard when it comes to my friends.

If you want to be that low, please by all means do. But don't fuck with my friends.

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